Christian Living
Appropriating the Happiness That Is in You
Part 6: Is Narcissism Destroying Your Marriage?

In this thought-provoking sermon, Dr. Michael Youssef explores how narcissism contributes to marriage breakdown and how followers of Christ can protect their marriages by returning to God’s original design for relationships.

Key Themes Examined:

  • Narcissism in Relationships: The impact of self-centeredness on marriage.
  • Jesus' Perspective on Marriage: How Christ avoided legalistic traps and emphasized God’s original design.
  • The Role of Commitment and Communication: Two essential ingredients for a joyful marriage.
  • Life After Divorce: Finding redemption and hope despite brokenness.
  • Affair-Proofing Marriage: Practical steps for strengthening marriage bonds and avoiding adultery.

Key Points Expanded:

  1. Narcissism in Relationships: Dr. Youssef contends that narcissism is the leading cause of marital breakdowns. He stresses that many people, to varying degrees, struggle with being overly focused on their own needs. The antidote? Focusing on the needs of one’s spouse and trusting God to fill the gaps rather than expecting constant reciprocation.
  2. Iron-Clad Commitment and Caring Communication: Dr. Youssef underscores two critical ingredients for a lasting marriage—unwavering commitment and genuine, caring communication. He explains that "cleaving" in marriage means being glued together, with both spouses' lives revolving around Christ. Without these foundational pillars, the marriage bond weakens over time.
  3. Life After Divorce: Addressing those who have experienced divorce, Dr. Youssef offers hope, emphasizing that redemption and joy are possible. He encourages viewers not to wallow in guilt but to accept God’s forgiveness and move forward with grace. There is a future after divorce for those willing to embrace God’s healing.

Take the Next Step:

Ready to deepen your understanding of God’s plan for marriage? Watch the next video in this series to discover more biblical insights into building a joyful, lasting marriage.

Scripture: Matthew 5:31-32
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